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Trauma Therapy Session 5: post session day 2

Wow not really sure what to write. That was definitely a productive session. I am learning these sessions never really go exactly as I expect but that is ok, in fact maybe even good. We started the session reflecting on homework. The homework I was set was to continue to mirror back negative emotion when…
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Therapy: Peoples Reactions when I tell them I am in therapy.

I understand that as much as we try to create a world where mental health is accepted, normalised, within everyone’s comfort zone, today the subject is still a little tricky. I think it is so important to break down the stigma surrounding mental health so I am continually trying to share my experience with work…
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Four ways to protect your well-being when the world is Going to Sh!t

I appreciate that with lots of uncertainty and turmoil in the world again it is easy for anxiety to get out of hand. Here are some tips to maintain the calm in the storm. Avoid the News This is a hard one but so important. There is so much information freely available these days we…
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Trauma Session 4. Day 5 Debrief.

In the spirit of continuing to share for anyone else out there either navigating therapy or considering it, here is the low down on session Four of trauma work. We didn’t talk about the traumatic events in the last session, we mostly spent the time reflecting on the previous session and some broader considerations. It…
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Five ways to bring calm to emotions in the moment.

I hesitated writing this post, because I am currently in therapy to undo a lot of the below. Due to prior trauma in my life I had practiced the art of setting aside or numbing my emotions and I have reached the point now where I am a little numb to it all, which is…
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Trauma Therapy. Session 4: Day 1. A Single Thought

Have you ever watched how a tree moves in the wind. Bending and swaying, dancing too and fro. Every tiny branch moves. Each giving way to the force which compels it. I understand they move in this way because if they held fast, if the tree stood still it would snap and fall. I wonder…
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Trauma Therapy Session 3, Day 6. Hungry for Happiness.

This blog feels like a messy one to write, on this journey of therapy I am learning so much, but I am also exposing new fears. Lesson 100! I haven’t freely felt emotion for decades… I never knew before starting this journey that I have been constantly holding back. Resisting the drive to feel for…
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Trauma Therapy Session 3: Hard Work Started

So this week was the third session of trauma therapy. Having found last weeks session fairly easy going, and having enjoyed a relatively good week, I was prepared to have to knuckle down this week and start the real work. A did a lot of preparation and perhaps recent events gave me a good shove…
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Trauma Therapy Session 2: Day 5. Faith without a church.

So that was strange. I went to church for the first time since pre covid and I lasted less than five minutes before I left. Now I know religion is a tricky subject, it means lots of different things to different people. Some people think religion is wonderful, others think it is frankly evil. Religion…
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Trauma Therapy Session 2: Day 4, Five ways to navigate the trauma in the day to day.

Following the last session I am defiantly doing a lot better. I am hoping that it is not because the last session was fairly easy going. I am hoping it is because that initial storm has passed. That all the emotions spilling out of me have finished their job. I am still aware there might…